In the early 1930s, Bill Wilson was living with his wife
Lois in her parents’ house at 182 Clinton Street, Wilson had college education and served in the
Army during WWI. He had already built a successful career on Wall Street when he came
up with the idea of physically visiting and researching companies to make
informed stock recommendations about them. He'd made a fortune and lost it.
During the Roaring Twenties, Wilson made his employers, their clients,
and himself quite a pile of money. The 1920s was also the time of Prohibition, yet liquor, especially bad liquor, was as
profuse as ever and more enticing because one had to visit a speakeasy. Knowing the secret code elevated one’s status
– perhaps only internally. And Bill Wilson
was a terrific drunk. When he was drunk,
he wasn’t always nice. In fact, he
insulted his bosses and their clients.
He was an embarrassment to himself, the company he worked for and his
wife. But as long as he predicted stocks
that soared, he was a rock star, and therefore his behavior and his obvious
psychological problems were ignored.
It was a high time - figuratively and literally - and everyone, including the local
paper boy, was buying stock on margin.
Having a compulsive personality, Wilson invested heavily on borrowed
funds and when the crash came, his lifestyle crashed with it. And, worse for him, he was no longer a rock
star to be lauded and tolerated. He was
fired.
On account of the stock market crash, Wilson and Lois lost
their upscale apartment in Brooklyn Heights and moved in with her parents on
Clinton Street. When Lois’s mother died,
her father remarried quickly and moved to another house in Brooklyn Heights,
leaving his daughter and her dissipating husband to live in the 4-story brick
row house he’d bought as a young doctor.
Had he developed a more resilient personality, he might have
found a way to rebuild a stable life, but he turned to liquor during tough
times and could spend days inebriated when he suffered an emotional blow. Wilson
had a lot of help to recover, and he would do that for a time, but soon he’d
relapse. He was known to pass out on
Schermerhorn Street near a speakeasy and not very far from the Quaker Meeting
House. In fact, he was on the street or
in alleys in so many places in Brooklyn Heights, that a “Bill Wilson Tour”
could be developed.
Finally, when the hospitals couldn’t help him, his wife’s
yelling couldn’t help him, his own shame and destitution couldn’t stop him from
drinking, it was the talking cure that saved him – talking to another drunk who
had found and kept sobriety. That, and
surrendering his arrogance in favor of humility and seeking spiritual help. Bill Wilson stopped drinking and wanted to
help others. His initial way of doing
that was to invite drunks to live at the Clinton Street house, his wife Lois
becoming chief cook and bottle washer, while he encouraged and aided men to get
and stay sober. At the house they
experienced the gamut from fights to theft.
Wilson had lost his business reputation and could only get
temporary mercy jobs from
friends. He decided to write a book and
Lois took a job. He and Lois lived on the
edge from the meager contributions of the people they were helping, until
finally unable to meet their mortgage obligation, the bank foreclosed on the house.
Bill and Lois Wilson were homeless for a year – living with
friends – until someone who admired their work made it possible for them to
afford to buy a house in Westchester County.
The sales from the book eventually took off and the Wilson’s were able
to live comfortably without financial worries.
The house at 182 Clinton Street is still there and has a
plaque on it letting the world know that this was where Bill W. started what we
now know as Alcoholics Anonymous.
Post by Alana Cash
I lived, drank, and got sober in Brookyn. Visiting his Clinton Street home while working as a waitress while in college in Brooklyn Heights, I passed this home on many a night and never knew anything about AA, but only where the good bars were. When I got sober in August of '92, I discovered his in-laws home. Can't wait to visit the Wilson House, VT, and have secured reservations for the weekend of the 19th and 20th of March 2022. Thank God for Ebby, For Bill W and for Dr Bob...odaat
ReplyDeleteThank God for his wife, Lois. She and her family were kind, generous and supportive to him. Making his contribution possible. Sadly, he did not treat her well or with respect. She was brilliant and founded al-anon but was the classic enabler many a time.
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